About THRIVE
Our Founder
Gari Thomas
As a result of a crumbling marriage, job dissatisfaction, and substance abuse, I found myself trapped in a spiraling cycle of chaos and misery.
Looking back, I thought I had done everything right. I communicated well. I was supportive and attentive. So, when the person I loved most told me those four words — “I want a divorce” — I was crushed. The disbelief, anger, fear, and helplessness were overwhelming. People say divorce is like a death, and I felt that instant void. How did we get here? What did I do wrong? How can I fix this?
There’s the "leaver" and the "leavee." The leaver has already processed it, visualized their future. But the leavee sits there, holding the broken pieces, trying to figure out how to put them back together. I remember the hopelessness vividly. After accepting the finality, I tried to fill the void — through relationships, substance abuse, and prayer. I begged God to fix it. I promised if He brought her back, I’d dedicate my life to telling others about His power.
But sometimes, God answers our prayers with a “no.” Looking back, I realize that I hadn’t truly surrendered my life to Him. I had tried to control everything, without bringing my pain and my marriage to Him in the first place.
Healing didn’t come overnight. It took time — and a series of steps that reshaped my attitude, actions, and emotions. I had to face myself, take responsibility, and seek healing on a mental, spiritual, and emotional level. Over time, my life improved in ways I never imagined.
If you’re facing the weight of brokenness, you don’t have to carry it alone. Let’s talk — I’ve been there, and I’d be honored to walk with you on your path to healing.
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